28 Apr 2013
in Business, Involving Children, Marketing, Parenting, Work
If you are looking for a new job, make sure to add “mom” to your resume. Why would you admittedly give yourself up as someone who has other obligations, you ask? Listen up hesitant mothers and heed my words hiring managers, because here’s why:
Mom’s Make Great Managers!
Yup, you heard right. Below are 10 reasons why you need a mom running your team right now:
- Multi-tasking. You need a leader that can juggle all the different decisions of your business. Mom’s are the best multi-taskers around. They simultaneously make lunches, while dressing children, nursing a baby, while packing backpacks, applying a band-aid on a boo-boo, at the same time as washing paint off of the wall.
- Planners. No business thrives when everything is left to the last minute. And guess who’s amazing at planning? That’s right, moms are. Mom’s have to plan each week out, rsvp to birthdays, schedule school plays and after school or weekend activities. Even t.v. time in some houses is a scheduled activity. We keep lists, planners, calendars and are accountable for our very own little tribe’s schedules.
- Used to no sleep. When your employees go out drinking at night, you can expect the next day to be of little productivity. Moms on the other hand are used to never getting any sleep. Seriously, never. And against all odds can accomplish even more the next day. Truth is, you probably can’t tell the difference between a mother who got 6 hours of sleep one night and 1 hour the following night. She’ll still be able to finish all of her tasks!
- No whine zone. Employees like to complain. Work is too hard, they don’t get what they want, dislike a project, it takes too long to get to work, hate their co-workers (wait, am I talking about adults or the kids here?) etc. When you allow constant complaining, you can expect it all the time. Mothers deal with whining non stop from kids and after a certain point, just do not tolerate it anymore. They will expect more from their direct reports and will make sure to keep the atmosphere a bit more positive.
- Understanding and listening. We may be good at stopping the whining, but more than that moms are great at listening. As a parent, mothers develop a 6th sense for when someone needs some extra attention. Managers need to know when to take a step back and assess or reassess the overall happiness and satisfaction levels of her/his employees. A successful manager, like a successful mother knows that by listening to thoughts, ideas and concerns of her employees it will help her better direct them down the best road for success.
- There are no sick days. If you are looking for an employee that doesn’t take off every-time she/he sneezes, moms are your best bet. Say the words “sick day” to a mom and she may look at you as if you are talking in a foreign language. When a mom gets sick, she still has to take care of her family. There is no “laying in bed until she feels better”. No, that’s for the husbands. Most moms I know, continue doing what has to be done even when they have the flu. That’s as hard working as you can get.
- Natural teachers that lead by example. In order to manage tasks and employees effectively, the manager needs to lead by example and needs to be a teacher. Moms are just that. Whether it’s teaching manners, math, walking, personal hygiene spelling or even dating etiquette, moms have to know how to teach different skills to different personalities. That is key for any business.
- Battle fighters and stress relievers. With all the fighting and tantruming that goes on in a household, moms have to become experts at picking which ones to give in on, which ones to ignore and which ones to to put armor on for. Honing in on this skill for business enables moms/managers to defuse sticky situations with ease.
- We reward well. Moms expect the best. They see capabilities, and they work with their children to reach their potential. Moms as managers will do the same, and become especially proud and rewarding when employees reach that level of success.
- FOOD! Yup, we mothers are used to feeding many mouths and that doesn’t change for adults! Many mom managers and employees I know love to cook for their co-workers!
Things that are taught in business school or through years of work experience seem to just come naturally to moms. So if you are looking for the next leader, manager and someone who may wipe your nose – then look for a mom (or an awesome dad).
14 Feb 2013
in Discounts, Marketing
Tags: deals, discounts, marketing
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01 Jan 2013
in A-Z Dinners For Kids, Baking, Dessert, Dinner, Food, Involving Children, Recipes
Tags: cake, fried chicken, meat
Main Dish: Deep Fried Chicken
Side Dish: Dill Pickles and Daniel’s Vegitables
Dessert: Duncan Hines Red Velvet Cake
Deep Fried Chicken:
- Checken Breasts, Legs and wings
- 3 cups of flour
- 6 eggs
- Seasonings to taste
- Green peppers
- Red peppers
Duncan Hines Red Velvet Cake Dessert:
- Duncan Hines!
Deep Fried Chicken Directions:
- Mix flour and seasonings in a bowl
- In a seperate bowl, blend eggs
- Dip each piece of chicken into the flour mix first, then the eggs, and then again into th
- e flour coating
- Pour oil into a deep frying pan and add the chicken when oil is hot
- Fry chicken for about 15 minutes or until chicken coating is golden!
Anyone who knows me, knows I love love love fried chicken! The kids loved it also (my daughter actually took off the coating because she “wanted to be healthy :)), so it was a win win! My husband’s name is Daniel, so he got to pick the side dish, hence the kind of cheating name. And the cake mix is just something quick and fun to do with the kids.
11 Dec 2012
in Involving Children, Parenting, Tips
Tags: kids, parenting, photos
Recently, a picture has been circling the web of three children crying (probably screaming) during their family photo shoot.
It’s obviously a funny picture because of the irony that they are holding up the word joy. To any parent though, it’s just a reality. Taking family pictures is HELL. No which way around it. The younger the kids are, the harder it is. The more kids in the pictures the harder it is. And if you, the parents are in it….well bring a bottle of aspirin and some liquor with you (just kidding…. kind of). With 3 children ages 6 months-5 and having taken pictures at every milestone age, I have learned a few tricks along the way to de-stress the picture taking experience.
10 Tips To Make Family Pictures Less Stressful:
- Set a budget beforehand. Some of these places operate like car dealerships. No matter what you walk out with, you will feel like you didn’t get what you wanted and you used your child’s college fund to pay for it. If you know exactly how many poses you want, how many pictures you want of each child, and exactly what you want to spend, write it down on a paper and take it with you. These places are good at making you feel like you have to buy every pose, so stand your ground!
- Bring Snacks. It doesn’t matter if your child just ate the biggest feast of his/her life right before the pictures. Kids have a knack for getting hungry at the most inopportune times. Also, pack wise snacks such as pretzels and things that wont stain.
- Don’t go during nap times. Those are usually the most open times, and there is a reason for that. Children, like adults, need their beauty rest.
- Make sure the place you go to uses smart photographers and cameras with fast shutter speeds. It sounds like a no-brainer but there are plenty of places I have been to where the photographer gets your kid to smile, and then takes another couple of minutes to go get the camera, fiddle with it and then take the picture. By which time your child has already left the studio floor and found chocolate to smear on his clothes. Do research beforehand and read reviews.
- Call before you go to find out how they coordinate the picture taking. Are they open to your suggestions of seating placement? Will there be a changing room at the studio? Can you choose the photographer? Do they start when you arrive, or will there be a long wait? Do you receive pictures the day of, and if so how long is the wait for that? Find out as much as you can so that both you and your children can be best prepared.
- Give your older children the “task” of helping get the younger children to smile and sit still. I swear it works. Not only does it make your older children feel important, but the younger children generally look up to the older ones and are more likely going to listen to them.
- Wear a lot of deodorant. Because, yes, this wonderful family time will cause you to sweat bullets!
- Bring a reward chart for your kids. Make a little sticker chart that you have out while pictures are being taken. Let your child know every time they do something good and give him/her a sticker for it. Positive Reinforcement goes a long way!
- Try to coordinate the order of pictures with your fussiest child going first, and your most patient child last.
You want to make sure you get a good picture of your child who just can’t seem to sit still- and the prime time to do that is upon arrival.
- Finally, proudly display the best picture from the day on your wall at home so when people come over, they can comment on how lovely and well behaved your children are! This will also help you forget how awful the experience was guaranteeing you will book your next session soon!
When your child does start acting up, keep calm. The only thing a parent’s nervousness does, is escalate the situation more negatively. Remember that your child is bored, not having fun and is a child- it’ll all be over soon! Feel free to leave a comment about your family picture experiences!
Here is a picture of my kids from our last shoot (note the smiles):
29 Nov 2012
in A-Z Dinners For Kids, Baking, Dessert, Dinner, Food, Involving Children, Recipes
Tags: casserole, chicken, food
Main Dish: Chicken Caesar Salad
Side Dish: Cheeseless Potato Casserole
Dessert: Cranberry Walnut Cookies
Chicken Caesar Salad:
- 4 Boneless Chicken Breast
- Caesar Salad Dressing
- 3 tablesppons of Teriyaki Sauce
- 3 teaspoons of Season All Salt
- 1 bag of Lettuce
- 1 sliced Onion
- Cut up Cucumber
Cheeseless Potato Casserole:
- 1 bag of frozen Hash Browns
- 2 Egss
- 1/4 cup of Riches Whip
- 10 ounces of Cream of Mushroom Soup
- 2 tablespoons of Flour
- Corn Flakes
- 1 Slice Onion
Cranberry Walnut Cookies:
- I used Gladders Gourmet cookies…. which always come out amazing!
Chicken Caeser Salad Directions:
- Cover Chicken with seasonings and cook in the oven until done
- Mix Salad ingredients with cut up chicken and top with dressing
Cheeseless Potato Casserole Directions:
*Please note that I actually made this up as I went along and don’t remember exact amounts for the ingredients I used. This is what I did as far as I can recall.
- Place the frozen hashbrowns in a baking dish
- Heat a spoonful of margarine on a skillet and saute onions
- In a bowl, mix eggs, whip, mushroom soup and flour
- Pour mixture over hashbrowns
- Pour onions over the top of hashbrowns
- Cover with corn flakes
- Melt a stick of margarine and pour over corn flakes
- Cook in the over for an hour at 425 degrees
This is a really great easy meal to make. I was really surprised to see how well the kids ate the Chicken Salad. My daughter doesn’t like dressing, but as long as she ate all her chicken and lettuce, I was happy! The potato dish was a stretch since I didn’t use cheese (which usually holds it together)- but it really came out yummy! Definitely something you should try as it’s a very kid friendly dish!
26 Nov 2012
in A-Z Dinners For Kids, Dinner, Food, Involving Children, Recipes
Tags: burritos, grilling, meat
Side Dish: Broccoli Suffle
- 2 pounds of beef
- Half of an onion
- 2 tablespoons of brown sugar
- 1 packet of taco seasoning
- 1 teaspoon of garlic
- Shredded lettuce
- Soft tacos (burrito)
- (any other toppings you desire)
- 2 packages of frozen broccoli
- 3 teaspoons of onion soup mix
- 1/2 cup of mayonnaise
- 3 eggs beaten
- 1/4 cup of flour
- Duncan Hines!
- Brown meat on a skillet for about 8 minutes
- Dice up onion and add it to the skillet
- Add dry seasonings
- Cook until completely browned
- Add meat to the middle of the burrito
- Top with shredded lettuce and fold up!
Broccoli Suffle Directions:
- In a pot of boiling water, cook broccoli until soft
- Drain broccoli and add to a 9×13 pan
- In a bowl, mix the eggs, flour, onion soup mix and mayo
- Pour the mixture over the broccoli
- Cook in the oven at 350 degrees for about 40 minutes
So……. this was actually my first burrito. I have never had any desire to even taste a taco, burrito or anything of the likes, but my husband loves loves loves Mexican food. I decided for my sake, and my kids sake, that I would make our first burrito not as spicy, and it worked! I let my kids try the meat prior to putting it in the wrap just so they would know they liked it. Children are much more likely to eat a mixture of foods if they know they like everything in the mixture individually.
13 Nov 2012
in A-Z Dinners For Kids, Baking, Dessert, Dinner, Food, Involving Children, Parenting, Recipes
Tags: dessert, dinner, kids, wraps
Main Dish: Albacore Tuna Wrap
Side Dish: Apple Strawberry Kugel Crunch
Albacore Tuna Wrap:
- 1 Can of Albacore Tuna
- Shredded Cheese
- 1 Onion
- 1 Tablespoon of Mayo
- Soft Burrito Wraps
Apple Strawberry Kugel Crunch:
- 1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
- 1 1/2 Cups of Rolled Oats
- 3/4 Cups of Sugar
- 3/4 of Oil
- 1 tsp. Cinnamon
- 1 can of Strawberry Pie Filling
- 2 Apples peeled and sliced
- 1 tsp. Vanilla
Albacore Tuna Wrap Directions:
- Dice Onion into tiny squares
- Mix Onion, Mayo and Tuna in a bowl
- Place Tuna mix on a wrap
- Sprinkle cheese over Tuna
- Roll wrap up
- Place in oven at 200 degrees for 5-8 minutes
Apple Strawberry Kugle Crunch Directions:
- Grease 9×13 pan. Preheat oven to 350 degrees
- In a large bowl mix, oats, flour, sugar, oil and vanilla until crumby
- Place 1/2 of the of the crumbs on the bottom of pan
- Top with Apples and sprinkle cinnamon on top
- Pour Strawberry filling over the apples
- Top with the rest of the crumbs
- Bake for about 1 hour uncovered
My son loved the and finished his wrap. My daughter on the other hand liked the wrap, but not the Tuna. Next time, I’ll have to cut out the onions, because that was the part she said she didn’t like . The Apple Strawberry Kugle Crunch can be a side or a dessert. It is also a great dish to top with ice-cream!